Would someone please point me to the study that shows how in the world the marriage of a loving gay couple hurts other marriages and families? A more sensible movement would be to ban TV shows like "Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire" that essentially pay people to wed strangers. Have any of these unions lasted even six months? Does anyone really believe these people married for love or intend to start families together? What sort of message about marriage do these shows send to kids? For that matter, what message do they send to adults?